How to Live a Luxury Lifestyle
A luxury lifestyle is so much more than just indulging in expensive things. It is a philosophy — an elevated way of thinking, being, and living.
There are many misperceptions about luxury that diminish its role as a powerful philosophy. However, living a luxury lifestyle is a worthy pursuit. Luxury is central to our ethos because it reflects our mission to promote the pursuit of pleasure and elevated living. Yet merely purchasing and indulging in expensive things is not our primary area of focus — we see luxury as an uplifting way of thinking, being, and living.
The luxury mindset encourages refinement and inspires you to be the curator of your life. It reminds you to be discerning about who and what you allow in your life, and pursue quality over all else. It motivates you to cultivate a sense of good taste and to make choices that authentically align with your desires.
The value, which all men put upon any particular pleasure, depends on comparison and experience; nor is a porter less greedy of money, which he spends on bacon and brandy, than a courtier, who purchases champagne and ortolans. Riches are valuable at all times, and to all men; because they always purchase pleasures, such as men are accustomed to, and desire.
"Of Refinement in the Arts" by David Hume
What is the luxury lifestyle?
The luxury lifestyle is not a one-size-fits-all concept. It's a personalized expression of abundance and sophistication. At its core, it involves the intentional pursuit of high-quality experiences, possessions, and surroundings that elevate one's standard of living.
While material possessions play a role, they are just a fraction of the equation. The luxury lifestyle is a symphony of indulgence, comfort, and exclusivity, designed to cater to an individual's unique desires and aspirations.
Quality over Quantity
Quality is the hallmark of luxury, and this principle extends across all aspects of life. From meticulously crafted style staples to artisanal home decor, the luxury lifestyle revolves around the appreciation of superior craftsmanship and attention to detail.
The emphasis on quality also extends to other areas such as personal relationships, with a preference for meaningful connections over a large social circle. The pursuit of quality over quantity permeates every facet of the luxury lifestyle, resulting in a curated and refined existence.
Exclusivity and Prestige
One of the elements that make the luxury lifestyle alluring is its association with exclusivity and prestige. Luxury is often defined by rarity and the feeling of being part of an elite circle. Whether it's owning limited-edition designer items, residing in an exclusive neighborhood, or gaining access to members-only clubs, the luxury lifestyle provides a sense of privilege and distinction.
This exclusivity fosters a feeling of belonging to a select group, adding a layer of social status and prestige to one's identity. Though you don’t need exclusive experiences to live luxuriously, for some, the ability to indulge in some that is obscure or out of the ordinary is a desired pursuit.
Exquisite Experiences
In the pursuit of luxury, experiences take precedence over mere possessions. Fine dining, exotic vacations, private events, and cultural engagements are integral components of the luxury lifestyle. Individuals seeking a luxury lifestyle understand the value of creating memories that transcend the mundane.
Whether it's savoring a gourmet meal crafted by a world-renowned chef or basking in the splendor of a private yacht charter, these experiences contribute to a life rich in diversity and excitement. The beauty is that these type of experiences are attainable at a range of price points. Moreover, innovative consumer and lifestyle brands have democratized so that many more people can partake in experience normally closed to the general public.
Expression and Individuality
The luxury lifestyle serves as a canvas for self-expression, allowing individuals to manifest their unique tastes and preferences. Whether it's through personalized fashion choices, bespoke home interiors, or custom-made accessories, this lifestyle is a celebration of individuality. The ability to curate an environment that reflects one's personality and aspirations is a driving force for those who choose a more opulent way of life.
Health and Wellness
Beyond material indulgences, the luxury lifestyle places a premium on wellness. This involves investing time and resources in personal health, fitness, and overall self-care. High-end spas, wellness retreats, and exclusive fitness clubs are integral components of the luxury lifestyle, highlighting the importance of maintaining physical and mental well-being. The pursuit of a balanced and healthy life becomes an intrinsic part of the luxury narrative.
Freedom and Time
In this fast-paced modern world, time has emerged as the ultimate luxury. Those embracing the luxury lifestyle recognize the significance of time and prioritize experiences that allow them to savor each moment. Whether it's taking a leisurely stroll through an art gallery, enjoying a quiet morning by the ocean, or simply relishing a cup of rare tea, the luxury lifestyle is characterized by a deliberate and unhurried approach to time.
Why pursue a luxury lifestyle?
There are many reasons why someone may be drawn to pursue a luxury lifestyle. There are many benefit of adopting luxury as a mindset and using that abundant mentality to upgrade your way of living. Here are a few:
Social Status
The most common reason that people pursue a luxury lifestyle is to display visible symbols of success in order to garner recognition and respect from peers and society at large. The pursuit of opulence allows individuals to communicate their achievements and status without uttering a word.
However, of all the reasons to pursue luxury this one should be at the bottom of the list. Pursuing luxury because of what others think of you is a recipe for poor decision-making such as overspending, getting into consumer debt, and living above your means. Though you may think you appear rich, it is not the best approach to building long-term sustainable wealth.
Goal Setting
The pursuit of a luxury lifestyle can act as a powerful catalyst for motivation and goal setting. While some may perceive opulence as an end in itself, for many, it serves as a dynamic force propelling individuals towards achieving their loftiest aspirations. The allure of luxury can foster a sense of purpose and direction.
A luxury mindset often propels individuals to set ambitious milestones, excel in their professional pursuits, embrace financial discipline, and continuously evolve on a personal level. The pursuit of opulence becomes not just a journey towards material success but a holistic quest for self-actualization, leaving a lasting legacy, and embracing resilience in the face of challenges. Ultimately, the luxury lifestyle can become a conduit for translating aspirations into tangible achievements.
Quality of Life
The pursuit of a luxury lifestyle extends beyond the realm of mere possessions; it's a deliberate and calculated effort to enhance one's overall quality of life. This commitment to opulence involves curating a life rich in comfort, pleasure, and fulfillment.
In essence, the luxury lifestyle transforms the ordinary into the extraordinary. It's a commitment to comfort, convenience, and wellness that extends to every facet of daily living. Those who embrace a luxury lifestyle embark on a holistic journey towards a life that is not just lived but exquisitely curated.
Easy ways to embrace a luxury lifestyle
Define it for yourself
Defining a luxury lifestyle is crucial as it enables you to align your choices with personal values and preferences, fostering authenticity and individuality. This personalized definition also promotes financial responsibility by guiding you to make conscious and informed decisions about the allocation of your resources.
Invest in quality Items
Investing in quality brands and goods is essential for a luxury lifestyle as it ensures the longevity, superior craftsmanship, and functionality of possessions. The superior materials and attention to detail in well-crafted products contribute to a sense of personal satisfaction and pride in ownership.
Additionally, quality possessions typically retain their value over time, supporting the sustainability of a luxury lifestyle. Ultimately, the emphasis on quality enhances the overall aesthetic, comfort, and functionality of items, contributing to an elevated and refined standard of living.
Indulge in self-care
Self-care is integral to a luxury lifestyle as it prioritizes personal well-being and contributes to an elevated standard of life. In the pursuit of luxury, individuals often invest in experiences, products, and environments that bring comfort and joy.
Self-care is a holistic approach that goes beyond material possessions, encompassing mental, emotional, and physical health. By dedicating time and resources to self-care practices, you can enhance your overall sense of fulfillment, reduce stress, and cultivate a positive mindset.
Create a daily routine
Time is the ultimate luxury, so creating a daily routine is essential to a luxury lifestyle for several reasons. First, it provides structure and organization, allowing you to optimize your time and prioritize activities that align with your personal definition of luxury.
Additionally, a consistent daily routine promotes efficiency and productivity, freeing up time for more meaningful experiences and pursuits. By intentionally crafting a daily routine, you can ensure that each day reflects your values and aspirations.
What is quiet luxury?
The "quiet luxury" social media trend has equally triggered and inspired many, but in an attempt to fixate on a long-established aesthetic, it somewhat misses the point. Wealthy people dressed in a minimalist but clearly expensive style have flooded our feeds. These individuals wear classic silhouettes that are neutral, tailored, and absent of logos or obvious brand recognition.
Though we are advocates of a classic style, it's clear that this trend is being used to shun the modern rise of showy luxury within the masses. However, whether conspicuous or understated, luxury should be a quality indicator not a status symbol. It is also more than a look or category of expensive goods, but a philosophy driven by discernment and discretion.
A luxury lifestyle is inherently "quiet" because it has little to do with what you have or wear, or even how others perceive you. It's not about what you do to impress others, but the personal decisions you make to elevate your life by focusing on what matters most.
If you want to live a quiet luxury lifestyle then simply embrace the luxury mindset, by being thoughtful about what you spend your time, money and energy on. Only pursue the best according to how you define it.
Adopt the luxury philosophy
The philosophy of luxury is attainable to all, regardless of your socioeconomic status, because more than anything else it is a sensitivity to and admiration of human creativity and craftsmanship. There are many different facets of a luxury lifestyle — from luxury gifts and experiences to the luxury of time and freedom. Anyone can develop an appreciation for the “finer things in life” without becoming overwhelmed by materialism.
Luxury is not excess
Luxury is not prosperity
Luxury is not pretentious
Luxury is choice
Luxury is discernment
Luxury is reverence
Listen to the audio for a brief summary of our philosophy of luxury, then watch the video for a full presentation on how to live a luxury lifestyle.
Read
Of Refinement in the Arts (Hume)
A Philosophy of Luxury (Weising)
Luxury, and How It Became Common (New York Times)
The Fascinating History of Luxury Design (Fast Company)
The Complete History of Luxury (QZ)
The Definition of Luxury is Changing (Forbes)
Nobody Knows What Luxury is Anymore (QZ)
What Does Luxury Mean Now? (BBC)
